The people on here, no matter what age, no matter what gender, no matter what religious or sexual preference; ask only one important thing of you; please...don't be cruel. If you get your kicks out of treating someone badly then please leave, because you shouldn't be here. This message is not directed at anyone personally, so if you happen to receive it from a friend, or a lover, or if it just shows up, simply take it as a friendly reminder that cruelty towards others is a reflection of who you yourself are. So, be loving and kind, be gentle and tender, be wise and understanding, be caring and sincere, be friendly and polite. But above all of these don't be CRUEL!!